When the days are long and bad

Sometimes I have these days in my life, especially at workplace. Some people prefer to be the opposite of nice, kind and lovely. I think I am a ”lucky” person as I really do not care about people’s opinion (depends on what they say).

I have noticed that if a person is hurt inside, outside acts like a angry, hungry lion/lionesse, ready to argue, to hurt and create pain for the people around them.

Sometimes I have long days, when I feel that the day never goes away, I am dreaming with my eyes open, counting the hours, trannsforming the hours in minutes, just to work for someone’s elses dream, so they can relax, and go to the most expensive holidays?

What do we receive back, sometimes a fake smile, more duties to do, and discriminatory words wrapped in a beautiful gift box with a pink ribbon.

When the days are long and bad, I COOK!

I love baking, cooking, and also i have noticed that every time I shop, I come home with a new ustensil, a plate or a bowl. Is really relaxing to do soemthing for YOU, and also to have the pleasure of offering, sharing what you have baked, cooked.

I DO RECOMMEND you these amazing set!

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Being kind doesn’t mean we have to be stupid, weak, naive!

I always say BE KIND and I truly believe in the meaning of these words!

But, I have noticed that some people sees the kindness like a weak value, something that can be used against you.  

I think some persons even think I’m easy to manipulate or a real push-over. I remember a lot of situations when I chose to be kind to a person and let myself down so that person can feel he/she won.

I am sure that God gave me this value and wants me to use it and to be kind, But also I AM SURE He doesn’t wants people to think or treat me as I am a weak person, here is not my problem but their problem. I choose to still show kindness and help people, I believe kindness can transform a heart made of stones into a gold heart full of kindness and compassion!

Learned my lesson, some people will always try to put you down and think they are better than you, and makes you feel weak, especially when they discover your kindness ”weapon”. In these situation I remember these kind of people seek attention, they might be hurt inside, or have no wisdom!

Like bible says in Matthew 5:44, just read, it’s an amazing verse

In these time we all live, feels like it’s the end of the world soon. So if we are all unkind, severe what is going to happen? Next time we meet a kind, compassionate person, try to be nice and think that we all live on this earth we all never know what happens in the next minute, we have to measure our words that comes from our mouth. We all live once, let’s be kind and lovely persons!

What is kindness?

Kindness is a behaviour marked by ethical characteristics, a pleasant disposition and consideration for others. It s a virtue, a value which is considered to be one of the knightly virtues.

Being kind often requires courage and strength!